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Living With a Seal, But First… An Apology

First things first!  I apologize to anyone visiting Florida right now.  I feel personally responsible for our weather, and it has been COLD!!!  Down to the 40s at night… and that’s here in South Florida.  I can’t imagine what it’s like in northern Florida… they’re probably getting out their parkas.

Last night I thought, “I don’t want to run in 40 degree weather.  I’ll do my run later in the day.” Then I thought about the book I’m reading, Living With a Seal, where Jesse Itzler has a Navy SEAL come live with him for a month to train him. He refers to the SEAL in the book as “SEAL” but we now know it was David Goggins.

I imagined what David Goggins would say if I told him I didn’t want to run when it’s 46 degrees.  He would probably swear at me and tell me to get my shorts on.  So… I ran, and was glad I did it.  But I am reminded why I live in Florida… I don’t like being cold!  Looking at the forecast, it’s going to warm up a little…

But what in the world is that low temperature on Sunday??????  Once again… I apologize to anyone visiting the Sunshine State this week.

I’m about 3/4 of the way through Living With a Seal, and my main takeaway is that I don’t push myself hard enough.  I think that would be anyone’s takeaway from this book.  On the first day “SEAL” came to live with Jesse, they went to the gym and SEAL told Jesse to do pull-ups.  Jesse pushed himself as hard as he could and did seventeen, which is more than he ever thought he could do. Then SEAL told him they weren’t leaving the gym until Jesse completed 100.

Although Jesse believed it was impossible, an hour and a half later he did indeed complete 100 pull-ups.  That’s the lesson on Day #1 and is the theme of the book- your body is capable of much, much more than you think.  When your mind is telling you you’re done, you’re really only about 40% done.

While I believe that most of us could be pushing ourselves harder, I have mixed feelings about this message.  David Goggins is the guy who completed an ultramarathon with broken bones in his feet.  When Jesse complains of being sore, or needing to rest, Goggins says “If you want to be pushed to your limits, you have to train to your limits.  If you get hurt, you will recover.”

Well… true.  However!  I don’t know about him, but I don’t heal instantaneously.  Taking time off for being injured is no fun, and- guess what- you’ll lose fitness while you’re on your forced time off for injury.  So I don’t think I’m quite ready for Navy SEAL training, but I do see that there’s something in between.

He looks mean, doesn’t he?

About seven years ago, I worked with a trainer at my gym.  I had a running injury- what a surprise, and interestingly it was to my right foot, not my left foot which I have now- and I figured I would go all in on strength training while it healed.  My trainer wasn’t quite as strict as a Navy SEAL, but close.  He pushed me way, way farther than I ever would have pushed myself.  I would be shaking by the end of his workouts.

Guess what?  I got so much stronger.  He actually called me one of his greatest success stories because I made so much progress with him.  After seven months though I was back to running, and figured I could continue to strength work on my own.  Honestly we didn’t have the same goals.  He thought I did “too much cardio” and didn’t really get the whole running thing, so it was time for us to part ways.  But I miss those intense workouts, which I’ve never been able to duplicate on my own.

So let’s see.  I won’t be having a Navy SEAL move in with me, but I realize how much harder I could be pushing myself.  Running will always be my love, but I need to stop being a wimp with my strength training.  Yep, I’ve been a wimp, and I have all sorts of excuses.  No more excuses!  It’s time to get stronger.

Do you like strength training?  Do you feel like you’re pushing yourself as hard as you could be?

Have you ever worked with a trainer?  Do you now?  How do you like it?

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Weekly Rundown- Everything is Awesome!

I don’t want to say this injury is behind me, because that would be tempting fate a little too much.  But let’s just say “Everything is Awesome” from The Lego Movie has been running through my head, and life seems good!  I’m linking up as always with Kim and Deborah for this Weekly Rundown.  Here’s how it all played out… Sunday I walked one mile and ran 3. Everything felt good! Monday I did lower body strength at home, including single leg exercises and squats.  One of the (few) things I’m proud of from my work this summer is the progress I made in the one leg sit-to-stand.  It’s one of the foundation exercises on Sally McRae’s app and also one of the hip stability exercises from Brad Beer’s book.  You start sitting on a chair or bench, and stand up using one leg, then sit back down, stand up again, etc. only on one leg.  When I first started I could only do five reps on each leg- now I can do 36 reps!!!  At least something has improved. I also did Caroline Girvan’s deadbug workout..  I’m really tired of it by now! Tuesday I walked 3 miles… … and then did a different core workout!  I did Caroline Girvan’s Standing Abs Workout, and I liked it.  At least, I liked doing something different. Wednesday Again, I walked one mile and ran 3.  Still feeling good! Thursday I did my single leg exercises, and another core workout.  This one Engie recommended, MadFit Standing Core Workout..  I liked this one too!  Then I had time for 20 minutes of walking. At night we watched the Dolphins game, which was a complete fiasco.  We lost, and our quarterback got ANOTHER CONCUSSION.  The poor guy will be out for… ever?  The rest of the season?  I feel really bad for him, and now our season is a shambles after only the second game. Friday Gym day!  It was a very squat-focused workout, because I skipped deadlifts.  My low back is nagging at me again, and deadlifts sadly make it worse.  After squats and Bulgarian split squats I did some core (abs and low back machines.) At night I planned to go to our high school football game, but it rained so much that the band couldn’t play (so I didn’t go.)  They did manage to play in the rain and our team won!  This was our homecoming, and last year’s homecoming was completely rained out.  September outdoor events just shouldn’t be a thing in South Florida. Saturday This was a big day- I walked one mile and ran 4!!!  I’m getting there! At night we watched the Baylor game.  FINALLY.  A game where it didn’t rain, no one got injured, and we WON!  At least the football week ended on a high note. Sunday Off!  Sleeping in and waffles will be involved (obviously.) So, it was a good week.  Moving forward, I’m going to cautiously try running every other day.  Running every third day was great to get me back from this injury, but I can’t do that forever! How was your week?  Were there any moments where you sang “Everything is Awesome?” Top photo by Stainless Images on Unsplash

Friday Coffee Date!

Hey, it’s Friday!  Pour yourself a beverage in your favorite fall mug (wait- you do have one, right?) and join me. Let’s talk about the weekend!  Tonight is another high school football game, and I will be there.  The last two weeks have been away games, so I’ve missed going.  But you know what that means- it’s time for Homecoming!  My daughter decided to go to the dance with a group of friends, and we started thinking about what she would wear.  But let’s back up for a moment… The high school concert band uniform is tuxes for the boys and long black dresses for girls.  When my daughter was a freshman last year, she said she would prefer to wear a tux. Now, I wasn’t entirely opposed to this, but I just preferred that she wear a dress… like all the other girls?  I told her that whatever she decided to do was fine, but there’s a reason boys usually wear suits and girls usually wear dresses.  Girls are more curvy, so dresses flatter them more.  My daughter is very curvy, and I thought a tux would just make her look kind of big all over. She decided to wear the dress, and I thought she looked lovely!  Then I was telling my friend about how well I handled that situation, and she thought I was VERY WRONG.  Why, she asked, did it matter how she looked?  Why did I make that the most important thing? Er- good question.  When it was time for New Year’s, my daughter wanted to wear a suit to the party.  I agreed immediately, and she actually looked kind of cute (not that it mattered!) Later I asked how she liked wearing the suit, and she said “I loved it.  I felt really confident.”  Okay then. Back to Homecoming!  My daughter said she wanted to wear a suit, and we got to work on her outfit (I was tasked with finding her some new pants, which was surprisingly hard.) Then yesterday she went to the mall to help her friend find a dress, and came home with… a dress, which she is now wearing to Homecoming. You guys, I can’t keep up!  Girls are so hard!!!  Boys are so. much. easier. Anyway, while my daughter is at the dance on Saturday night, my husband and I will be watching the Baylor game!  I have a fun fall-themed dinner planned, with some new things to sample from Trader Joe’s. One last thing- I’ve submitted my request for postponement of jury duty.  Weirdly, the request had to be submitted in writing, and by that I mean I had to write a letter and mail it through the U.S. postal service.  When was the last time you did that? I was so confused.  I couldn’t even really remember how to do it.  When I printed out my letter, my husband looked at it and said “You didn’t leave room for your signature.”  Oh yeah- I totally forgot.  Then I had to find an envelope and a stamp, and take it to the mailbox… I mean, don’t we have more modern methods of communication nowadays?  Anyway, I hope it gets there, and I hope I get my postponement (actually, I’m hoping they forget all about me, but if worst comes to worst I’ll take a postponement.) That’s it for this week! When was the last time you mailed a letter?  I don’t mean a greeting card or postcard, but like an official letter?   Do you think I was wrong to encourage my daughter to wear a dress?  How much does appearance matter? What are your plans for the weekend? Top photo by Aaron Burden on Unsplash

Reading and Eating

I finished Winter of the World, which will from now on be referred to simply as WOW.  It was so, so good, and I’m getting ready to start the third book in the trilogy!  It starts in 1961, where the second book left off. But let’s go back to last week- I had my trip to the used bookstore.  It was everything I hoped it would be (look away, Engie!  I’ve discovered that Engie does NOT like used bookstores!) As I hoped, I did leave with a stack of books. Some classic murder mysteries- I can never resist- and more Ken Follett.  I have no plans to read The Pillars of the Earth anytime soon, but I know I’ll read it eventually, and I couldn’t pass up an opportunity to get a used copy in good condition. Eating!  Once again, I did not do any meal prep on Sunday so we’re limping through the week.  The good news is, I think I’m training my husband and daughter to expect less and less in the dinner department.  I mean- we do eat.  It’s just not fancy. Sunday morning I made gluten-free pumpkin pancakes from Running on Real Food.  First, let’s look at a picture from the website: And here’s, ahem, mine. All that garnish aside, mine look really weird.  But they did taste good!  Chickpea flour is my new favorite flour.  By the way, if you’re making pumpkin baked good this fall, don’t forget the formula to make them really flavorful- double the amount of pumpkin spice, and add a pinch of cloves.  And whatever you do, do NOT forget the salt! What are you reading now? Top photo by Aaron Burden on Unsplash

Getting Back on Track

I wrote in Sunday’s post that I’ve been feeling like my life is just a little off track.  Then I looked around my house and realized one of the reasons is that I’ve been half-assing my beloved Pumpkin Palooza.  I had some, but not all, of my fall decorations out, and then a summer-y wreath was lying on the table.  Furthermore, I hadn’t had one special meal or snack to celebrate the start of football season. This was all wrong!  I needed to rectify the situation right away.  I lit a fall candle… …and got out all the rest of my fall decorations while watching the first half of the Dolphins game.  At halftime I put together a little charcuterie board… …and then we watched the Dolphins come from behind to win the game.  Fall is back on track! Let’s move on to running.  SIGH.  So far, my calf seems to be better, but my race plans are in tatters.  Back in May, I signed up for a race on November 9th.  It’s a trail race, and you run as far as you can in a certain amount of time.  I chose the 12 hour option. Hahahahaha.  Even if everything goes perfectly from now on, I’ll have no business running a 12 hour race in two months.  I guess the good news is, it’s a 4.5 mile loop that you run over and over again.  I can go and just run a couple loops.  That would be kind of sad- but maybe less sad than not going at all?  I’ve already paid for the race so if I can run at all, I’ll probably go. Now let’s deal with this jury summons.  I know it’s our civic duty, but I think it’s unfair that it creates more of a financial hardship for some people than others.  Additionally, some people never get called for jury duty, and some people get called all the time!  Luckily I’ve come up with a great solution. My plan is, all registered voters would be required to submit a form every five years, indicating the time they would like to do their jury duty.  That way, people would be able to pick a time that works best with their work schedule, and have time in advance to arrange for childcare, etc. Of course, if everyone chose July of 2027 it would be a fiasco.  But I have solutions for that too!  People who are retired, independently wealthy, or who have a very flexible work schedule could volunteer to be “swing jurors,” willing to be called at any time.  There could be incentives for people who serve in months like December (which I’m guessing would be the least popular)- like if you sit on a jury in December, you’re exempt for the rest of your life. I’ll be submitting my request for a postponement- do you think I should include my detailed plan for an overhaul of the entire system?  Haha, that might get me excused permanently (“Don’t let this woman near the courthouse- she’s obviously a troublemaker!”) Anyway, I’m starting to feel a little better.  As long as I can continue to run and nothing else goes wrong, I think I’m back on track. How do you like my plan?  Would you volunteer to be a “swing juror?” Top photo by Redd F on Unsplash  

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  1. I do not as you know do any strength training. I don’t own anything. I used pre-pandemic go to the gym on occasion. I loved the machines.

    Never worked with a trainer. But I think they are very helpful ad I would if I could afford it and had the time to put into strength training.

    We had -6 Sat am so Florida seems balmy. But I know what you meant. When I go to Florida in the winter I am pissed if I cannot go to the beach. I want at last 70 degrees and sunshine. It’s hit or miss. I’m praying for hit when I go this year.

    1. Yes, anyone who doesn’t believe it gets cold in Florida should read Kim’s last race recap! I know it’s now cold compared to up north- but people down here are expecting to wear shorts and go to the beach. 45 is a little too cold!
      I’m only doing strength because I feel like I have to! If you told me I could run as much as I wanted, never do any strength training, and never be injured again, I would do it! But… no one’s telling me that and as a matter of fact my body is telling me the exact opposite, so… sigh.

  2. It took me a long time to dip my foot in the strength pool (how’s that for a metaphor, LOL), but I am SO GLAD I made that venture. My intro to strength training was the P90X series. The first 10 days or so, my entire body was so sore and I couldn’t lift either arm to brush my teeth (truth!), but after those 90 days I was hooked. I don’t consider myself a slave to the weights, but I do find a way to get in at least one (usually 2 or 3) strength workouts a week. My workouts are fairly short (20-30 minutes) because those fit my schedule best, and their short length allows for me to do multiple ones (thus working different muscles) without needing an excess amount of time to recover. The key is finding what works for YOU 😉 Good luck!!!!

    1. Thanks Kim! It’s actually encouraging that you were a reluctant strength trainer and now you like it. It gives me hope!

  3. Oh, I like strength training way more than cardio, but I don’t push myself as hard as I could because I’m nervous about hurting myself. I could probably do a little bit more…

    (Also, I’m so jealous of your temps. We’ll be luck to get above zero today. At least it’s sunny, I guess.)

    1. Ah, you’re one of “those” people! I’m definitely more of a cardio person. As a matter of fact I could run every single day and never do any strength again, and I would be ecstatic. But… I force myself to do strength. When I worked with that trainer, I actually did have some workouts that gave me endorphins, and I got a little glimmer of understanding why people like it.

  4. I did not know that David Goggins was the SEAL. I’ve never read any of his stuff, but I certainly know the name and have been turned off by a few stories about him (like the running on broken bones). There is no doubt that I would be in better shape if I trained harder, and also no doubt that I would be less likely to bother if I was getting injured, so I’m definitely on Team Inbetween.

    1. Yes, in the epilogue he reveals that “SEAL” is David Goggins. But I already knew that because I heard Jesse talking about this book on a podcast years ago. Yes, there are some questionable stories- but I’m still going to push myself harder (while staying on this side of sanity.)

  5. In the past, when I was in the Navy, I met many members of S.Marco (Italian Seal) and we made many runs together but, of course, they followed a different training.
    And always in the past I worked with a trainer and I made strength training in a boxing gym but now I am too old to push myself. My only goal is “running as I can”.

    1. From what I understand, the Navy SEAL training is insanely hard!
      I agre that age is a factor- but even taking that into consideration, I think I’m too easy on myself. I’m going to try and step it up a little!

  6. For a few months, I went to a Crossfit box in Florida and I LOVED it! Every time I see Wendy’s photos from her strength training classes I’m always slightly envious. I would love to attend Crossfit regularly.
    I tend to push myself too much – past the point of exhaustion. Twice, it got to the point that I fainted in a race. While I’m a big fan of Goggins’ advice, I know I have to be careful that I don’t overdo it. But then again maybe he would say that I didn’t train hard enough! 😉

    1. Actually I have a feeling Goggins would be proud of you! He probably approves of pushing so hard that you faint.
      Yes- Wendy’s strength training is always an inspiration to me. I know I would be so much stronger if I had a coach, and went to a class like that. She’s a badass!

  7. I feel like David’s mentality can be applied incorrectly in some aspects but I definitely agree that our minds will give up before our bodies actually will. During my last training cycle, I would be battling myself mentally in some workouts. I push myself (wisely) and love to see improvement!

    1. Yes, there are situations where pushing past our limits just won’t work. But for most of us, we aren’t coming anywhere near our true limits, and I think that’s the point he’s trying to make.

  8. You’re wearing shorts, so it would probably feel like the middle of summer to me. We were in full winter mode here with temperatures below -15 Celcius most of the week. Sigh.
    I do love our summers/fall here, though, so I guess it can’t all be sunshine and roses.
    I really do feel like I want to push myself harder physically but my health challenges have made that basically impossible lately and I’m trying to be content with eating healthfully and staying active. I don’t know if I could even do a single pushup right now, but I walk every day, could run a 5K if I had to…and I’m trying to embrace that though I’m driven, I really have to give myself a break sometimes. But that’s hard.
    I also have a sister who regularly does Ironman competitions, so I feel like a COMPLETE slacker compared to her…she texts me she’s done a brisk 20 km run to work through snowdrifts while I’m still nursing my first cup of tea in a bathrobe.

    1. Well, you make another good point. A lot of it is mental, but there still is a physical component which can be limiting. Like, if I tried to tough it out mentally and run 50 miles, I would really hurt my foot. That’s what frustrates me sometimes with books, and advice, like this. There are things you just can’t push through by willpower alone.
      I have a rule- I live in Florida, so I ALWAYS wear shorts for running. It will never be too cold. For the rest of the day I was in cozy sweatpants though!

  9. This totally cracked me up. Last weekend we had a freakishly warm day, it was about 8 degrees C, which is 46 degrees F, and my sons were on the trampoline with no socks or coats, and my older son also had no shirt and was wearing only shorts. If it is above zero here, there are people walking around in shorts. Then again, we would probably all melt and die in your summers, so it evens out, I guess.

    I do strength training and it has helped me a lot. I’m doing upper body work now as well and I haaaaaaaaaaate it. But I do it because I think it’s important. The strength/ core/ lower body work has made me stronger and helped keep injuries at bay, I think. It’s also made my ass a lot peachier. Which is good?

    1. Ha ha… I’ve given up on my ass, at least the way it looks. But I want it to be strong! Yes, strength training is important for us as we get older, especially.
      Yes, your freakishly warm day is our freakishly cold day! It’s all what you’re used to. But! I did grow up near Chicago so I know what REAL cold is like! I’ve just forgotten over the years.

  10. I have listened to some of Goggins book (not the book you’re reading). I don’t know, he really turns me off.

    Many years ago I worked with a trainer. I loved that! Just like working with a running coach! Or taking group classes. You always work out harder in a group or with someone to push you.

    I think that’s great up until about your 50s or so. Then I think most (not all) of us don’t react so well to pushing so hard. Which of course doesn’t mean turning into a couch potato either!

    1. My husband read Goggins’ book a few years ago and really liked it. I had no interest, but I did enjoy Jesse Itzler’s book. There’s definitely something in between Navy SEAL training and what I’ve been doing!

  11. I enjoy strength training and have definitely experienced the benefits of it in regards to my running. I’d have never thought it made that much of a difference. I have only briefly worked with a trainer. I have a degree in P.E. and usually feel like I can be my own trainer, but I do see benefits of having an “outsider” tell you things and make you work harder… not necessarily Navy Seal-like (I feel like that should be reserved for combat situations, where you don’t have a choice LOL) .

    1. There’s no denying the benefits of strength training- I just wish I enjoyed it more! I think with your P.E. degree you know what to do, but I still think it helps having someone else push you. Maybe the Peloton classes achieve that, to a certain degree.

  12. I love strength-training more than cardio, but I know cardio is better for my heart so I do more cardio than strength. Wah. I mainly cycle through full-body routines on the Peloton app. I’ve worked with trainers before and I just do not work well with trainers who try to eek everything out of you and yell at you to do more. It’s not my style! I need encouragement (#typicalmillenial)! But I’m also not training to become a Navy SEAL, hahaha.

    1. I agree you need cardio, but strength training is also good for you so if you enjoy it, I say do more of it! I wish I enjoyed it- I feel like I should be doing more.

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