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Reading and Eating

“This is how humans are.  We question all our beliefs, except for the ones that we REALLY believe, and those we never think to question.”

-Ender, Speaker for the Dead

I’ve read four books recently, and one of them was so good, the other ones pale by comparison.  If you’ve read Ender’s Game by Orson Scott Card, but haven’t gone on to read the other books in the series… you have a treat waiting for you.

Ender’s Game was originally meant to be a prologue to the Ender Saga.  The true story starts with Speaker for the Dead.  This book is about philosophy, religion, how we treat people who are different from us, and it’s also a fascinating, compelling story.

The Ender Saga changed my views of science fiction in the same way Harry Potter changed my opinion of fantasy.  If you told me I would be reading a book where people cast spells and fly around on brooms, I would have said it sounds ridiculous.  But in the world of Harry Potter, it totally works.  The same goes for Speaker of the Dead.  Oh, this guy is three thousand years old due to relatavistic time of interstellar travel?  Makes perfect sense.

I can’t really talk much about the plot of this without spoiling Ender’s Game.  All I’ll say is- if you like (or even can tolerate) science fiction, READ IT.  My son is finishing the next book in the series, and I’ll be reading it as soon as he’s done.

Anything after that would be anticlimactic, and unfortunately the next book I read was… not very good.  I almost DNF’d after two pages because the writing was so poor, but I stuck it out because- I’ll admit it- the story was intriguing.   The premise is that a couple finds out their sperm donor, for the baby the wife is carrying, is a serial killer.  That alone was interesting enough to make me keep reading.

The problem was, as the story went on it became more and more preposterous.  :Even a couple days later I find myself thinking back on it angrily: “The police wouldn’t do that!  No one would act like that!  No lawyer would say such a thing!”  But I’ll say this- it was a quick read.  I finished it in two days, so at least the experience wasn’t too drawn out.

The other two books fall somewhere in the middle.

The House on Mango Street is a beautifully-written book that I enjoyed, but I’ll be honest- not a lot of it stuck with me. I’m trying to think of something to say about it other than it was well-written, and I can’t.  The Late Mrs. Willoughby is a MUST READ if you love Jane Austen.  This is the second book in Claudia Gray’s Mr. Darcy and Miss Tilney mystery series (the first one is The Death of Mr. Wickham, and they must be read in order!)  If you don’t love Jane Austen,  I don’t think these books are for you.  The mystery alone isn’t enough to carry the book- but if you like hearing more about Marianne, Elinor, and characters from other Jane Austen novels, you would probably enjoy this.

Let’s move on to food!  On Monday Birchwood Pie shared this recipe for braised tofu, and I knew I had to make it immediately.

Obviously, it was delicious!  How could it not be?  And, just to prove that we do eat something other than tofu, rice and broccoli, for Father’s Day my husband requested deep dish pizzas.

You can see the one on the right where I indicated which part has sausage- the toppings go underneath the sauce so it’s hard to see.

I use this recipe from Sally’s Baking Addiction, with the following modifications to make it vegan: Earth Balance instead of butter, Violife vegan mozzarella cheese, and my husband and son had Beyond Sausage on their’s (yuck.) Anyway, we all enjoyed it, and in the background you can see raspberry almond thumbprint cookies from Nora Cooks, which my husband requested for dessert.

Have you read any of these books?

What meal would you request if someone else were cooking?

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Reading and Eating

I’ve started Edge of Eternity and we are now in the 1960s!  It’s amazing to me how much I actually don’t know.  Yes- I did know there was a wall in Berlin.  But if you asked me when it was built, I would have said… right after WWII?  No!  It was built in 1961, after the US and USSR threatened war over the Berlin crisis.  This was going on during the Civil Rights protests in the US.  What an incredibly turbulent time!  Needless to say, I’m loving this book. This is the third book in Ken Follett’s Century Trilogy, and in between books 2 and 3 I quickly read this: This was a reread, as all Agatha Christies are for me.  I found it at the used bookstore, flipped through it and didn’t recognize any of the character’s names.  I took that as a good sign, and decided to risk it.  So many times I start an Agatha Christie (I read them all at least thirty years ago) and remember the ending about halfway through. Not this time!  I KNOW I read this one, but I truly couldn’t remember it.  I even tried out different “ingenious” solutions: “The narrator is the murderer!  The priest isn’t really a priest!  Someone is a long-lost son!”  Nope.  The ending was a complete surprise.  I really enjoyed this reread! Eating wise… I’ve continued to pretend that it’s not hot, muggy, and steamy here, and made chili!  I while ago I made Vegan Cincinnati Chili from this website. I was planning to make that again, but when I went to the website, I noticed he also has a recipe for “Texas Chili” which is called Best Damn Vegan Chili Ever.  Well!  I had to try that. It was very good!  I’m not sure I believe the claims that this chili is “award winning.”.  But to be fair, I did leave out two “optional” ingredients, pickled jalapenos and masa harina.  Mayne next time I’ll put those in and see if it wins any awards. I will say that my husband LOVED it!  We ate it for two dinners, and both times he exclaimed over how much he enjoyed it. Chili: Cincinatti, or Texas style? What are you reading now?

Fall Fun

I had a really nice, fall-ish weekend!  When I say “fall-ish,” I don’t mean I visited a pumpkin patch or went apple picking.  No, we don’t have that in Florida- although, I’m pretty sure it’s too early for those things just about everywhere right now.  But those are things that never happen in Florida, so we have to make our own fall. We may not have cool temperatures and falling leaves, but we do have football and homecoming!  Saturday night was our high school homecoming dance, and my daughter went with two of her friends, looking amazing in her new dress.  I got a lot of GREAT comments on my post about the suit vs. dress dilemma, including one from Julie saying that she wore a tux to her prom!  For this dance, my daughter wore a dress- who knows what will happen in the future. I dropped my daughter and her two friends at the dance, and I loved seeing all the kids dressed up.  I also loved that these three girls didn’t feel like they needed dates- they were happy to be going together.  I was excited that it was my daughter’s first high school dance. I was also excited that after the dance, another mom was picking the girls up and bringing them back to her house for a sleepover.  I knew that my daughter would be in good hands and I knew she would have fun- and my job was done for the night. I got home just in time for the start of the Baylor game.  It was gloomy and rainy outside (a typical South Florida evening in September) and my house was so cozy!  We broke out the fall food and beverages. We tried each of the beers: the Oktoberfest was very good; the Pumpking Ale was okay, and the Howling Gourds was terrible.  The only one we actually finished was the Oktoberfest.  It turns out some things just shouldn’t taste like pumpkin, and beer is one of them.  But it was fun to try them all. I LOVE chips and salsa, but don’t normally eat them.  It’s one of those thing I can’t stop eating once I start, so I usually don’t let myself start.  But I made an exception since they were “fall-themed” (holiday foods don’t really count, right???) and I loved them.  The pepita salsa is delicious, and chips are always good.  Plus they looked like fall leaves! We also had this: It was good.  I mean- it was good for a prepared dinner.  Elaborate cooking wasn’t in my plan for this night, so we definitely enjoyed these “heat and serve” enchiladas. We watched Baylor win, and oh yes- I was wearing my new favorite pajamas. After the game, I stayed up late reading, and finally crawled into bed, knowing that there was no work or school tomorrow, and no one would be needing me for anything.  I could sleep as late as I wanted, and didn’t wake up until 9 am.  It felt AMAZING. After a nice slow start to the morning, Sunday got underway.  I picked up my daughter, did the grocery shopping, and started thinking about plans for the week.  I felt a little melancholy that the weekend was coming to an end.  Sometimes everything just comes together perfectly.  I know there will be more fun times this fall, but it’s possible that I’ll look back and say “Yes, that was the best night of the whole season.” Are you starting to think about fall, or are you still in a summer frame of mind? Pumpkin ale- yay, or nay?

Weekly Rundown- Everything is Awesome!

I don’t want to say this injury is behind me, because that would be tempting fate a little too much.  But let’s just say “Everything is Awesome” from The Lego Movie has been running through my head, and life seems good!  I’m linking up as always with Kim and Deborah for this Weekly Rundown.  Here’s how it all played out… Sunday I walked one mile and ran 3. Everything felt good! Monday I did lower body strength at home, including single leg exercises and squats.  One of the (few) things I’m proud of from my work this summer is the progress I made in the one leg sit-to-stand.  It’s one of the foundation exercises on Sally McRae’s app and also one of the hip stability exercises from Brad Beer’s book.  You start sitting on a chair or bench, and stand up using one leg, then sit back down, stand up again, etc. only on one leg.  When I first started I could only do five reps on each leg- now I can do 36 reps!!!  At least something has improved. I also did Caroline Girvan’s deadbug workout..  I’m really tired of it by now! Tuesday I walked 3 miles… … and then did a different core workout!  I did Caroline Girvan’s Standing Abs Workout, and I liked it.  At least, I liked doing something different. Wednesday Again, I walked one mile and ran 3.  Still feeling good! Thursday I did my single leg exercises, and another core workout.  This one Engie recommended, MadFit Standing Core Workout..  I liked this one too!  Then I had time for 20 minutes of walking. At night we watched the Dolphins game, which was a complete fiasco.  We lost, and our quarterback got ANOTHER CONCUSSION.  The poor guy will be out for… ever?  The rest of the season?  I feel really bad for him, and now our season is a shambles after only the second game. Friday Gym day!  It was a very squat-focused workout, because I skipped deadlifts.  My low back is nagging at me again, and deadlifts sadly make it worse.  After squats and Bulgarian split squats I did some core (abs and low back machines.) At night I planned to go to our high school football game, but it rained so much that the band couldn’t play (so I didn’t go.)  They did manage to play in the rain and our team won!  This was our homecoming, and last year’s homecoming was completely rained out.  September outdoor events just shouldn’t be a thing in South Florida. Saturday This was a big day- I walked one mile and ran 4!!!  I’m getting there! At night we watched the Baylor game.  FINALLY.  A game where it didn’t rain, no one got injured, and we WON!  At least the football week ended on a high note. Sunday Off!  Sleeping in and waffles will be involved (obviously.) So, it was a good week.  Moving forward, I’m going to cautiously try running every other day.  Running every third day was great to get me back from this injury, but I can’t do that forever! How was your week?  Were there any moments where you sang “Everything is Awesome?” Top photo by Stainless Images on Unsplash

Friday Coffee Date!

Hey, it’s Friday!  Pour yourself a beverage in your favorite fall mug (wait- you do have one, right?) and join me. Let’s talk about the weekend!  Tonight is another high school football game, and I will be there.  The last two weeks have been away games, so I’ve missed going.  But you know what that means- it’s time for Homecoming!  My daughter decided to go to the dance with a group of friends, and we started thinking about what she would wear.  But let’s back up for a moment… The high school concert band uniform is tuxes for the boys and long black dresses for girls.  When my daughter was a freshman last year, she said she would prefer to wear a tux. Now, I wasn’t entirely opposed to this, but I just preferred that she wear a dress… like all the other girls?  I told her that whatever she decided to do was fine, but there’s a reason boys usually wear suits and girls usually wear dresses.  Girls are more curvy, so dresses flatter them more.  My daughter is very curvy, and I thought a tux would just make her look kind of big all over. She decided to wear the dress, and I thought she looked lovely!  Then I was telling my friend about how well I handled that situation, and she thought I was VERY WRONG.  Why, she asked, did it matter how she looked?  Why did I make that the most important thing? Er- good question.  When it was time for New Year’s, my daughter wanted to wear a suit to the party.  I agreed immediately, and she actually looked kind of cute (not that it mattered!) Later I asked how she liked wearing the suit, and she said “I loved it.  I felt really confident.”  Okay then. Back to Homecoming!  My daughter said she wanted to wear a suit, and we got to work on her outfit (I was tasked with finding her some new pants, which was surprisingly hard.) Then yesterday she went to the mall to help her friend find a dress, and came home with… a dress, which she is now wearing to Homecoming. You guys, I can’t keep up!  Girls are so hard!!!  Boys are so. much. easier. Anyway, while my daughter is at the dance on Saturday night, my husband and I will be watching the Baylor game!  I have a fun fall-themed dinner planned, with some new things to sample from Trader Joe’s. One last thing- I’ve submitted my request for postponement of jury duty.  Weirdly, the request had to be submitted in writing, and by that I mean I had to write a letter and mail it through the U.S. postal service.  When was the last time you did that? I was so confused.  I couldn’t even really remember how to do it.  When I printed out my letter, my husband looked at it and said “You didn’t leave room for your signature.”  Oh yeah- I totally forgot.  Then I had to find an envelope and a stamp, and take it to the mailbox… I mean, don’t we have more modern methods of communication nowadays?  Anyway, I hope it gets there, and I hope I get my postponement (actually, I’m hoping they forget all about me, but if worst comes to worst I’ll take a postponement.) That’s it for this week! When was the last time you mailed a letter?  I don’t mean a greeting card or postcard, but like an official letter?   Do you think I was wrong to encourage my daughter to wear a dress?  How much does appearance matter? What are your plans for the weekend? Top photo by Aaron Burden on Unsplash

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  1. I thought I’d read The House on Mango Street but apparently not – I do read a lot of those sorts of titles! I’ve just finished Nevada by Imogen Binnie which was a-maz-ing and it’s going to be hard to equal – I have started Alex Haley’s “Queenie” which looks at the other side of his family to “Roots” and is v engaging so far (but also 945 pages) (but also that got a big space made on my TBR, taking it off the shelf!). Love the look of the tofu, I’ve somehow never dared cook it but I suspect it’s easier this millennium than last, right? I remember friends’ parents battling with it in the 80s and my friends battling with it in the 90s!

    1. Yes, tofu has come a long way!!!
      I don’t think I’ve heard of Nevada but I’m going to look into it- that’s quite a review!

  2. I read the Ender’s series when I was in high school I think, and I felt the same as you! The fact that I liked a sci fi book really surprised me, but not only did I love Enders Game, but I read the entire series. In fact, I do not keep very many books, but I kept my copy of Enders Game (and it is one of those small paperbacks just like yours!) Now I kind of want to go back and read them again, because it has been a while!

    I have not read any of the others you mention, but I just read Hello Beautiful, which I see in your stack! I will be interested to hear what you think about it, as it really had a lot of hype and many people really loved it, but while I liked it, I was not gushing over it. I am looking forward to your report on that one!

    1. Yes, I definitely have to read it. People have quite different opinions about Hello Beautiful!
      It’s also surprising to me that I liked a sci fi book, but I guess it just goes to show you- a well-written book is great, no matter what genre.

  3. That Most Wanted book sounds like one I recently read, Hold My Girl, in that the premise was very interesting but I kept thinking THIS WOULD NEVER HAPPEN, NO ONE WOULD DO THAT, NO. I kept reading because I was invested enough in the story to want to know what happened, but it wasn’t great.
    I love House on Mango Street and I loved that the author wrote it in short vignettes for people who want to read but don’t have time or are too tired.
    I saw that recipe on Birchy’s blog and have been wanting to try it. Maybe I will next week.

    1. Yes, you and Engie both loved House on Mango Street. I did like that format. I think I actually liked the introduction, where the author talked about her life, more than the actual book. And I did like that she wrote it that way specifically to be accessible to lots of people.

  4. Yum! Now I want more of the braised tofu ASAP. I like the idea of adding in broccoli to bulk it up. Now that you mention it, I wouldn’t mind a nice pizza dinner so that might have to happen tonight.

    I’m interested to hear your take on the William Landay book. It’s on my radar but I haven’t gotten motivated enough to get it yet. I’m keeping an open mind on Ender’s Game. I’m somewhat anti scifi but I also used to be anti dystopian until I read Station Eleven and Handmaid’s Tale. Like you say, all it takes is the right book to open up another genre. Without the variety there’s a good chance that I’d end up with only “oops my sperm donor is a serial killer” books.

    1. Ha ha… yes, it’s good to have a little variety!
      I’ve had the Landy book out of the library for a couple weeks now and I hope I get around to reading it before I have to return it. I read several good reviews, but somehow there always seems to be something else to read.

  5. The food looks delish! We had a kid home sick (and vomiting) on Father’s Day, so I dropped the ball on that. I prepped my husband (and FIL’s) favourite dish yesterday for supper, though, by way of a delayed celebration and everyone loved it.

    I don’t read much sci-fi, but do enjoy the genre, so I bet I’d like these books! I feel like I need to take a step back from reading over the summer because like is going to be kinda crazy, but I’m SO excited to re-read A Tree Grows in Brooklyn with Engie and the rest of her online book club. I bought the book with birthday money and it’s sitting in my bedside table drawer just begging to be read. CAN’T WAIT!

    1. Yes, I also can’t wait for our book club! I’m getting the book from our library- I’m just waiting for it to be transferred to my branch.
      Ugh- you have had more than your fair share of vomit this year, it seems! Hope everyone is healthy now.

    1. I’m going to start Hello Beautiful soon! I read Me Before You by Moyles and really enjoyed it, but I haven’t read any of her other books.

  6. Tofu dishes like that are staples for me. I change around the sauce to mix it up. My kids both read Ender’s game for a high school class. Admittedly, after reading the Odyssey with both of them I passed on that one.

    1. You would be very happy at our house around dinnertime! We have been making tofu a lot this summer. For next week my son has requested to gochujang tofu I made a couple weeks ago. i feel like we’re basically eating the same meals over and over again, just with different sauces.

  7. I haven’t read any of these yet! A family member recommended Scottoline several years ago and I had a similar initial experience to you. I ended up DNFing. It seems to me like her books sound like they have a good premise, but I don’t know if her writing style jives with me. I think of her as the mystery writer version of Jodi Picoult.

    You have The Twyford Code in your stack — I will be interested in your thoughts. I read one of her books recently and enjoyed it, but the structure was so unique I don’t know if I could deal with another book using a similar conceit.

    1. I’ve started The Twyford Code! Yes, the structure is unique. Usually I don’t like unusual structures like this, but so far it’s working for me. I’ll let you know what I think when I’ve finished it.

  8. Of the stack at the top, I’ve read Piranesi (odd but great book) and Hello Beautiful. Hello Beautiful is my too read of 2023 so far. I loved it so much. I come from a big, catholic family so I could relate so the sibling dynamics, like how there are always alliances in families, etc. it was beautifully written and has stayed with me. I hope you like it!

    I haven’t read Ender’s Game but your love of it and Kyria’s comment make me want to read it!

    1. I’m intrigued to read Hello Beautiful because of the mixed reviews- the people who loved it, REALLY loved it. I’m reading it soon!

  9. I AM SO HAPPY THAT YOU LOVE SPEAKER FOR THE DEAD.!!!! I think you’re the only person I’ve actually convinced to read this series and I’m so happy you’re part of the club now.

    Other recs that you might like:
    The Expanse series (there’s a completed book series and a tv series – they’re both excellent – you should both read and watch it in whatever order you like)
    The Magicians trilogy by Lev Grossman (I actually only read the first one, but if you liked Vita Nostra, this might work for you)

    Oh, Jenny, this post made me so happy. I’ll be glowing for the rest of the day.

    1. I’m glad I made you glow! Right now I’m impatiently waiting for my son to finish the next book so I can read it. And, we own the first book of The Magicians- it’s another book I got my son for Christmas. We will definitely read it.

  10. I don’t think I’ve read any of these, though I do have ‘Hello Beautiful’ on hold at the library. It’s a long wait, though. I just finished a book today, “Major Pettigrew’s Last Stand”, and I adored the writing up until the end. The story was mostly charming, so I will still recommend it, but there was one scene that bothered me.

    Oh, I also have ‘House on Mango Street’ on hold at the library. I’m looking forward to that one too!

  11. I read the Murder of Mr. Wickham couple months ago and found it so charming! I have similar thoughts about that book, as you did about the sequel – I felt like the plot was kind of thin and most of the fun came from revisiting beloved characters.
    The tofu looks delicious – I’ll have to bookmark that one!

  12. I have not read The House on Mango Street and I don’t know why! It’s always been on my radar, being a Chicago-based book. I’m wrapping up my June reads and I’m a bit frustrated with most of them…

  13. Isn’t it so fun when you can read a book that impact you so much? But then the ensuing book slump is hard!

    That Scottoline book sounds SO INTERESTING. And I am so bummed that it was so bad. Ugh.

  14. I confess, after reading the back-and-forth between you and Engie on Ender’s Game, I actually think I might read it. I’m not averse to sci-fi, but I don’t seek it out. Given your rave reviews, though, I’m reconsidering that!

    And yum. Tofu. I saved that recipe, too. 🙂

    1. Oh good! Just know that Ender’s Game was originally meant to be a prologue to the “real” story, which starts with Speaker For the Dead. You have to read Ender’s Game to get the backstory, but IMO the next books are the really great ones. I guess a lot of people JUST read Ender’s Game (which my son absolutely loved) but the books just get better and better.

  15. Ok, I NEED to make sure my son has read Ender’s Game because it definitely sounds like something he’d like, and this other one too. I feel like my oldest- who has always been a HUGE reader- has fallen off a lot lately with reading. He literally used to read constantly when he was ~7-12 years old or so. I hate to admit that the decrease in reading probably correlates to when he got a phone…. UGH. Do you feel like your son (or daughter) has gone through anything like this? Seems your son is still reading now, but did he ever sort of fall away from reading more and then come back to it as he got older?? Mine is almost 15. I know he still enjoys it, but it just isn’t his default activity anymore like it used to me and it breaks my heart a little! I was always SO proud and happy that he was such a huge reader. Now though like in the car, etc he often has his phone along, whereas when younger of course he didn’t….

    1. Well actually, that exact same thing happened to my son, and he’s just now getting back to reading. He had to make a conscious effort to start reading again- he told me he wants to be “a person who reads” so he started reading for ten minutes every morning. Then when he got so into the Ender books, he started reading more and more. I hope he continues this new habit when he goes back to school and things get busy again. So- yes it happens, but don’t give up hope!

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