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October Ultimate Coffee Date!

Hooray!  It’s the first Friday of the month, which means I’m linking up with Coco and Deborah for the Ultimate Coffee Date.  It’s obviously time to get out the Halloween mugs.  Pour yourself a spooky beverage and join me!

The first thing I would tell you over coffee is, tomorrow is my son’s senior recital.

We can’t be there in person but will be able to watch it via livestream.  I’m dealing with a cocktail of emotions here: disbelief that he’s a SENIOR in college, nervous for him (I mean, I’m sure he’s well-prepared and will do well, but a mom has to worry), sad that his time at Baylor is coming to an end, and of course- so, so proud of him.  The baby whose nickname was “Li’l Sumo” is now a MAN.

So what else is on tap for the weekend?  My husband and I are planning a little at-home “Oktoberfest.”  I’m not quite sure what that will entail, other than beer of course.  My husband is very enthusiastic about the beer- “Let’s make it really cold!  We can get a bucket and put all the beers in it with some ice!”  WHOA THERE.  I’m not sure how many beers he plans on drinking, but my limit is probably 1.5.  We’ll have to have something to eat as well- I’m looking at this website with vegan Oktoberfest recipes.

In other news, I got a letter saying that my request to postpone jury duty has been granted.  PHEW!!!  Interestingly, I’ve talked to three people who told me when they get a jury summons, they just throw it away.  They figure since it’s not registered mail, no one can ever prove they got it.  Huh!  Now I’m feeling virtuous about getting out of jury duty the “right” way.  Or, maybe I’m just a fool.

Lastly, thanks to everyone who complimented me on fixing my blog.  Unfortunately I did NOT fix it (yet) and the only way it looks “normal” is if I include lots of photos (to make the post long.) Here’s one of me in my element…

Contacts out, pajamas on, and both cats by my side! This is the life.

 

Spotted at Michael’s- regretting that I didn’t buy it!

 

Spotted at Target- didn’t buy, and no regrets. I like popcorn and pumpkin spice, but not together.

What would you tell me over coffee?  Do you have any plans for the weekend?

 

 

 

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Reading and Eating

I finished the Ken Follett Century Trilogy!!!  Fall of Giants covered WWI, Winter of the World continued with WWII, and The Edge of Eternity starts in the 1960s. One thing I loved about these books is it showed me the continuity between these events.  I used to think of WWII as something that happened in the past, whereas events in the 1960s and 1970s were in more “modern” times.  Now I understand more the connection between WWI, WWII, the Cold War, Vietnam, and the events leading to the fall of communism. Edge of Eternity focuses mostly on the children and grandchildren of the original characters from Fall of Giants.  It was fascinating that a young man who fought in WWI, if he lived to a ripe old age, would also live through the Cold War.  There were characters in the book who endured Nazi Germany, WWII, the Soviet occupation of East Germany, and then saw the Berlin Wall come down.  It was incredibly moving to me that Black people who fought for Civil Rights in the 1960s could live to see Barack Obama elected president. I will say that, while I was reading it, Edge of Eternity was my least favorite of the three books, and I’m still trying to figure out why.  The first two focused heavily on Europe, and in Edge the focus shifted to the United States and Soviet Union.  There was a lot of detail about politics in the US, and while it was interesting, the story bogged down a little for me.  JUST A LITTLE!  I still enjoyed it, but whereas with the first two books, I didn’t want them to end, with Edge, I was kind of looking forward to finishing it. Then… I actually finished it, and the ending was so good that I cried.  There was an epilogue, which I was initially annoyed to see- I mean, the ending was perfect, what’s with this epilogue?  But then the epilogue also made me cry.  You guys- it was so good and I’m so glad I read these books.  I’ll be thinking about them for a long, long time. It was hard to move on to anything else, but I had to forge ahead.  I have some library books to get through, so I started this one: So far, so good!  I’m not very far into it, but I’m enjoying it. Eating-wise, I continued the pumpkin theme with some pumpkin oatmeal.  No special recipe- I just add a couple dollops of pumpkin puree and pumpkin pie spice to my regular oatmeal. For dinner on Sunday, I went to Nora Cooks and browsed through her “Fall Recipe” section.  I ended up making Butternut Squash Curry With Chickpeas. It was good!  The only problem was, I should have doubled the recipe.  I like my Sunday dinner to also feed us on Monday, and I should have known one can of chickpeas wasn’t going to do that.  My daughter wasn’t a fan of the squash, but she’s obviously insane.  You cube the squash and roast it, and add it to the curry at the end- it was delicious. I’ll echo Engie’s recent question- what was the last book that made you cry?   What are you reading now?

A New Month

It’s October!  Time to get out the Halloween decorations- how exciting. Like many others, I’m looking forward to the Girl Next Door Fall Extravaganza episode for 2024.  While I’m waiting, I’ve been amusing myself by listening to their old ones.  One thing I love about these episodes is, Kelsey and Erica live in Arizona. Arizona weather is not Florida weather, but there are similarities.  Mainly that neither place has a true “fall.”  While the rest of the country is (hopefully) experiencing beautiful, crisp fall days, we’re still sweltering in the heat. In this episode from 2016, Kelsey and Erica talked about how they adjusted to fall in the desert.  They went through stages of denial, acceptance, and said they are now living in an alternate reality where it IS fall, dammit, because I say so!  That’s the way I feel- I put up my decorations and light a candle, so therefore it’s fall. Switching out my decorations (fall to Halloween, to Thanksgiving, to Christmas) also helps make one month distinct from another.  In Florida, we pretty much have two seasons: Summer, and SuperSummer.  There’s definitely a difference between January and July, but still- most days in January you can still walk around in shorts and a tank top. There are many times that I temporarily have no idea what month it is.  I know we all have those moments, but I doubt most people up north get confused between summer and winter.  In the absence of external cues, it’s important to me to make one season distinct from the next.  Otherwise time slips by much, much too fast. In this week’s Best Laid Plans podcast, SHU discussed how she marks the start of a new month,  One of the things she does is switch her screen backgrounds.  I like that!  I’m going to switch the photo on my phone, and I’m thinking of using this “terrifying” one of Charlotte… Hee hee… actually, she was yawning.  But she looks ferocious.  Here she is looking like her beautiful self: Magical black cats really do guard my home this month! Do you decorate for Halloween? Do you feel like you need to do something to make your months distinct, or does it naturally happen where you live?  

Weekly Rundown

It was a great week!  That is, if you like heat, humidity, and hurricanes.  (If you don’t like those things, don’t come to Florida in September!)  Here in South Florida we’re sending love to those in the panhandle who got pummeled- while being grateful that we were spared this time.  As always, I’m linking up with Kim and Deborah (thanks, ladies!) for this Weekly Rundown.  Let’s just see how it all went down… Sunday 6 miles on the trail!  The first mile was walking, then 5 miles running.  It was hot, sticky, parts of the trail were overgrown and there were biting flies.  But I loved it. Monday Leg day at the gym!  Here’s how I found the squat racks: BOTH racks had heavy weights left on the bars.  Why do people do this???  I didn’t feel like dealing with it, so I went over to use an older squat rack in the corner.  Once again I avoided deadlifts because of my cranky low back, but did squats, some single leg balance exercises, and abs. Tuesday I continued my cautious every-other-day running schedule.  Today I walked half a mile and ran 2.5. I followed this with a MadFit standing core workout. Wednesday It was a strength day at home- upper body, Caroline Girvan deadbugs, and hip stability exercises. At 5 pm we got a call that school was canceled the next day because of the hurricane.  Wait, what?  This was the first I heard of Hurricane Helene (I really should start watching the news more.) In my defense, it wasn’t on track to hit us, but we still had a tropical storm warning. Thursday The good news was, since there was no school, I was able to sleep in a little and run in the daylight.  The bad news was, we had pockets of horrendous weather, and one of them happened during my run.  Wind, driving rain, and thunder and lightning in the distance.  I did 3 miles and then hightailed it back home- and as soon as I got there it started to clear up. I followed this with the MadFit standing core workout- except I didn’t realize it was a different one.  Apparently MadFit has at least two standing core workouts.  I like them both! Friday I was very proud of myself for getting to the gym twice this week for leg day.  This time I did squats and deadlifts.  My low back is still achy, but I just decided to carry on. Saturday 5 miles!  Well, the first half mile was walking, and then I ran 4.5.  I’m getting there… slowly but surely. Sunday On tap for the day- sleeping in and waffles!  I’ve decided to shift my “long” runs to Wednesdays (a day off from work.) Obviously there will be football as well, although the Dolphins play Monday night.  I’ll find a game or two to watch. How was your week?  Any “interesting” weather?  

Runfessions and Fallfessions!

Well, it’s the last Friday of the month and you know what that means- I’m linking up with Marcia for Runfessions!  But first- let’s talk, once again, about pumpkins. I said I wasn’t going to talk about pumpkins in every post, but yesterday Nicole sent me this: I love it!  And I love how when people see tons of pumpkins, they immediately think of me.  I am officially the Crazy Pumpkin Lady!  But did you know it wasn’t always this way? When I lived up north, I actually- gasp- HATED fall!  I know- the irony!  I grew up in Illinois (the pumpkin capital) where I could do all the fall things- go apple picking, see fall colors, wear sweaters… and I hated it.  What I really hated, of course, was winter, but fall meant winter was coming. In my 20s I was still living up north (why? WHY?) and one day I went for a walk with a friend.  He pointed out the beautiful colors of the leaves, and I told him I couldn’t see the beauty- all I could see was that winter was coming.  He said “Can’t you just appreciate this now and enjoy yourself, without worrying about what’s coming next?”  My response was, “If you knew you were going to prison next month, would you be able to put that out of your mind and enjoy yourself today?” Yes, that sounds dramatic, but it’s truly how I felt.  Every winter the entire world turned gray.  It felt like someone threw a thick blanket over me, and I had to struggle through every day with that encumbrance.  This was right around the beginning of SAD lamps, but they weren’t widespread.  It wasn’t like you could just order one on Amazon.  I’m not sure there was a SAD lamp big enough and strong enough to fix my SAD, anyway. Now you know why I live in Florida!  But- the irony continues- after living here for about ten years, I started to notice how frickin hot it is in September… and October… and November.  I started to “miss” fall- or rather, the romanticized notion I had of it.  A crisp fall day would feel amazing right about now.  So… Pumpkin Palooza was born. I mention all this because for those of you who are dreading the winter (Hi Engie!  Hi Kim!) I want you to know I truly empathize.  It IS awful, and if you’re not enjoying fall, I don’t blame you one bit.  (Side note- Florida is a lovely place to visit in January- just saying.) Now wait just a minute! (you might be thinking.) How is this “runfessions?” Well, it’s hard to have a lot of runfessions when you’re not running very much.  I’m plugging along, a little frustrated that this is where I’m at (when I thought I was going to run a 12 hour race in November) but at the same time grateful that I can run at all. Recently I heard someone on a podcast describe training like this: every time you run, or do your strength work, or mobility, or whatever you’re doing to train, you’re placing one brick on top of another.  It doesn’t look like anything at first, but if you’re consistent, eventually you’ll have built an entire wall.  Every once in a while someone comes along with a sledgehammer and smashes your wall to pieces; and then you begin all over again. I’ll just be over here laying down my bricks.  And- stay away from me with that sledgehammer!  I’ve had enough for the time being. How’s your fall going- are you enjoying it? Is your “running wall” big and strong, or are you building it back up from the rubble like I am?  

22 Responses

  1. Congrats to Paul, what a proud moment! You’ll be saving the poster, yes?
    And I love the cozy picture of you with the kitties! It’s a very different vibe from the running pix!
    I’m headed to Utah for a hiking trip this weekend (we’re on Fall Break) and I’m really looking forward to it… But also, every time I travel without my kids, I’m afraid that something will happen to me and my kids will end up orphans (LOL-sob)

    1. Oh, I’m SO ENVIOUS. Utah is my dream destination- it looks so, so beautiful. But yes- I have that thought when my husband and I travel together, what if something happens (IT WON’T.).
      I only have a photo of the poster- but my son has some actual posters at school. I’ll ask him to bring one home for me. Thanks for making me think of that!

  2. Yay for technology problems that can be fixed by adding cat pictures to the end of your posts! And huh it never would have occurred to me to just not answer a jury summons. I feel like I’m the kind of person who would get caught if I didn’t respond – I feel like there would be follow up and yes you can miss one piece of mail but not a lot of pieces of mail. So yay for following the system.

    Congrats on Paul’s recital. It’s a Big Deal. I have no words.

    Enjoy Oktoberfest! I can’t wait to hear about it.

    1. Thanks Birchie! Yes, I guess problems that can be fixed by adding cat pictures aren’t that severe.
      I know- I would also be nervous about ignoring a jury summons. But apparently they really won’t come after you???

  3. Gooooooo Paul! That’s amazing. And wow – the years fly by. From me on the outside looking in it feels impossible that he’s a senior.

    Love the fall pictures; you do the season proud 🙂

  4. SENIOR RECITAL?!?! How cool! We are leaning into fall this weekend with apple picking, etc, so that’s our Oktoberfest, I guess. I LOLed at the ice bucket and 1.5 beers.

  5. I also can’t believe your son is a senior already! I’m sure he will blow you away with his recital — I love that photo of him!

    I also love the photo of you in your PJs. 😉

    You know what’s missing from your weekend plans? Lederhosen!v 😉

    I am planning a low-key weekend ahead of a high-stress work week ….

    1. True, I need some Oktoberest apparel! But I’ll probably just be wearing pajamas, ha ha.
      Yay for a low-key weekend- boo for a high-stress work week. I hope you can relax and enjoy the next couple days.

  6. Oh, I would *never* be able to throw out the summons! I would worry so much about getting in trouble for that. Despite my jury duty PTSD, I can’t imagine just ignoring it and hoping for the best! (I’m also a terrible liar, so what would I saw when I was caught??) My mind is blown that you know multiple people who did that. Perhaps it is common? Anyway, I’m glad yours got postponed.

  7. Good luck to Paul, I’m sure he’ll do amazing!

    I hope you enjoy your Oktoberfest— my parents are planning one in a few weeks and I’m not a beer drinker but my mom is making a vegan beer cheese with pretzels and I’m all about that! As for the pumpkin spice popcorn, I’ve been intrigued by it because I like other flavors from that brand but not sure if it’s worth trying.

    My weekend plans include one last “long” run before my race and getting all packed for my trip next week. I can’t believe it’s almost here!

  8. I love your enthusiasm for Octborerfest! Also a popcorn fan but meh not pumpkin spice on popcorn. The did have a spicy flavor that was good! Is is amazing how fast the kids grow up! How did that senior year sneak up so quickly!>?

  9. I’m such a rule follower that I can’t fathom throwing away a jury summons!! I am glad you got out of it, though!! Hope they don’t come knocking again!

    Good luck to Paul! I am sure he will do great but I bet it’s nerve wracking. I am glad you can stream his performance. You must be so very proud!!

    It’s going to be summer-like tomorrow so we are going out to a friend’s house that is on a lake for one last summer hang. Phil will help them take their docks out which is a big job. But we are kicking off our weekend with Paul’s first chess club meeting at school today. I love that his school has activities like this as that is more his jam than athletics… he will still try different sports but I think he will be like me and excel more in academic pursuits.

  10. Pumpkin spice…popcorn???? Hard pass! I’m the same way with beer. I pretty much can only drink beer if I’ve had another beverage prior (and am not quite myself, if you know what I mean, LOL). A pic popped up, from a year ago, where Jim handed me his beer “to hold for a minute” and I remember finishing it before he got back (oops).

  11. Good luck to your son. Very exciting.

    I would totally buy that popcorn.. glad I didn’t see it.

    a 5k and 18 miles on my plate this weekend.

  12. Wow, senior recital – a big milestone. I can imagine you are feeling all the emotions. As a parent of little kids though, I always wonder what adults they’ll become- so very cool you’re at the stage where you get to see. 🙂
    I’m just amazed how many “fall” decorations there are in North America- this is NOT a thing in Australia. We of course have Halloween decorations, but not fall specifically. Our countries are so similar in many ways, and different in others.
    This weekend includes a shopping trip with me and my Mum – looking forward to it.

  13. Aww, yay for your son!! I’m so glad the internet exists — it makes it easier to still be able to participate/support even if it can’t be in person! This brings back memories — I miss playing piano! <3

    The kitties look so content! :]

  14. I love your comfy picture! I think my favorite outfit is sweat pants, or the equivalent. It is only too bad that it is not really kosher for a grown woman to be sporting them outside. I mean, don’t get me wrong, SOME grown women do, but that is not really my style. My grandmother would roll over in her grave! Also the cats, yes please! I love a good lap cat. My gato used to love to sit right next to me, as close as possible, and that was perfect, as I often had a book or computer on my lap (I studied for the CFA for four years)!

    If we were having coffee I would tell you that I a fan of pumpkin in its true form, but am not a huge fan of the “natural flavor” variety, as in, the kind that is probably not real pumpkin. Give me pumpkin bread, or pretty much any pumpkin dessert, or pumpkin curry, the kind with the actual vegetable, but please do not give me a PSL or that popcorn. I want real pumpkins to be harmed in the making of the product!

  15. Your son is already a senior? I still remember when you were writing about his first year and driving with him to help him move.

    Now, you left me thinking about the jury duty letter. It’s been years since I’ve had to report, but have received letters saying I might have to show up.

  16. Omg how exciting for your son and all of you! Congratulations! I can’t believe he’s a senior either. I still feel like my oldest just graduated and it’s coming up on 2 years. It all goes by so fast.
    I last did jury duty when my kids were very young. I recall trying and failing to get out of it. I know I had to get child care. I got to the part where the lawyers questioned me. Thank heavens I was not selected. Enjoy the beer-full Oktoberfest! Haha!

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