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Getting Back on Track

I wrote in Sunday’s post that I’ve been feeling like my life is just a little off track.  Then I looked around my house and realized one of the reasons is that I’ve been half-assing my beloved Pumpkin Palooza.  I had some, but not all, of my fall decorations out, and then a summer-y wreath was lying on the table.  Furthermore, I hadn’t had one special meal or snack to celebrate the start of football season.

No.

This was all wrong!  I needed to rectify the situation right away.  I lit a fall candle…

“Autumn Harvest” from Target- it smells so good!

…and got out all the rest of my fall decorations while watching the first half of the Dolphins game.  At halftime I put together a little charcuterie board…

…and then we watched the Dolphins come from behind to win the game.  Fall is back on track!

Let’s move on to running.  SIGH.  So far, my calf seems to be better, but my race plans are in tatters.  Back in May, I signed up for a race on November 9th.  It’s a trail race, and you run as far as you can in a certain amount of time.  I chose the 12 hour option.

Hahahahaha.  Even if everything goes perfectly from now on, I’ll have no business running a 12 hour race in two months.  I guess the good news is, it’s a 4.5 mile loop that you run over and over again.  I can go and just run a couple loops.  That would be kind of sad- but maybe less sad than not going at all?  I’ve already paid for the race so if I can run at all, I’ll probably go.

Now let’s deal with this jury summons.  I know it’s our civic duty, but I think it’s unfair that it creates more of a financial hardship for some people than others.  Additionally, some people never get called for jury duty, and some people get called all the time!  Luckily I’ve come up with a great solution.

My plan is, all registered voters would be required to submit a form every five years, indicating the time they would like to do their jury duty.  That way, people would be able to pick a time that works best with their work schedule, and have time in advance to arrange for childcare, etc.

Of course, if everyone chose July of 2027 it would be a fiasco.  But I have solutions for that too!  People who are retired, independently wealthy, or who have a very flexible work schedule could volunteer to be “swing jurors,” willing to be called at any time.  There could be incentives for people who serve in months like December (which I’m guessing would be the least popular)- like if you sit on a jury in December, you’re exempt for the rest of your life.

I’ll be submitting my request for a postponement- do you think I should include my detailed plan for an overhaul of the entire system?  Haha, that might get me excused permanently (“Don’t let this woman near the courthouse- she’s obviously a troublemaker!”)

Anyway, I’m starting to feel a little better.  As long as I can continue to run and nothing else goes wrong, I think I’m back on track.

How do you like my plan?  Would you volunteer to be a “swing juror?”

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I’ve started Edge of Eternity and we are now in the 1960s!  It’s amazing to me how much I actually don’t know.  Yes- I did know there was a wall in Berlin.  But if you asked me when it was built, I would have said… right after WWII?  No!  It was built in 1961, after the US and USSR threatened war over the Berlin crisis.  This was going on during the Civil Rights protests in the US.  What an incredibly turbulent time!  Needless to say, I’m loving this book. This is the third book in Ken Follett’s Century Trilogy, and in between books 2 and 3 I quickly read this: This was a reread, as all Agatha Christies are for me.  I found it at the used bookstore, flipped through it and didn’t recognize any of the character’s names.  I took that as a good sign, and decided to risk it.  So many times I start an Agatha Christie (I read them all at least thirty years ago) and remember the ending about halfway through. Not this time!  I KNOW I read this one, but I truly couldn’t remember it.  I even tried out different “ingenious” solutions: “The narrator is the murderer!  The priest isn’t really a priest!  Someone is a long-lost son!”  Nope.  The ending was a complete surprise.  I really enjoyed this reread! Eating wise… I’ve continued to pretend that it’s not hot, muggy, and steamy here, and made chili!  I while ago I made Vegan Cincinnati Chili from this website. I was planning to make that again, but when I went to the website, I noticed he also has a recipe for “Texas Chili” which is called Best Damn Vegan Chili Ever.  Well!  I had to try that. It was very good!  I’m not sure I believe the claims that this chili is “award winning.”.  But to be fair, I did leave out two “optional” ingredients, pickled jalapenos and masa harina.  Mayne next time I’ll put those in and see if it wins any awards. I will say that my husband LOVED it!  We ate it for two dinners, and both times he exclaimed over how much he enjoyed it. Chili: Cincinatti, or Texas style? What are you reading now?

Fall Fun

I had a really nice, fall-ish weekend!  When I say “fall-ish,” I don’t mean I visited a pumpkin patch or went apple picking.  No, we don’t have that in Florida- although, I’m pretty sure it’s too early for those things just about everywhere right now.  But those are things that never happen in Florida, so we have to make our own fall. We may not have cool temperatures and falling leaves, but we do have football and homecoming!  Saturday night was our high school homecoming dance, and my daughter went with two of her friends, looking amazing in her new dress.  I got a lot of GREAT comments on my post about the suit vs. dress dilemma, including one from Julie saying that she wore a tux to her prom!  For this dance, my daughter wore a dress- who knows what will happen in the future. I dropped my daughter and her two friends at the dance, and I loved seeing all the kids dressed up.  I also loved that these three girls didn’t feel like they needed dates- they were happy to be going together.  I was excited that it was my daughter’s first high school dance. I was also excited that after the dance, another mom was picking the girls up and bringing them back to her house for a sleepover.  I knew that my daughter would be in good hands and I knew she would have fun- and my job was done for the night. I got home just in time for the start of the Baylor game.  It was gloomy and rainy outside (a typical South Florida evening in September) and my house was so cozy!  We broke out the fall food and beverages. We tried each of the beers: the Oktoberfest was very good; the Pumpking Ale was okay, and the Howling Gourds was terrible.  The only one we actually finished was the Oktoberfest.  It turns out some things just shouldn’t taste like pumpkin, and beer is one of them.  But it was fun to try them all. I LOVE chips and salsa, but don’t normally eat them.  It’s one of those thing I can’t stop eating once I start, so I usually don’t let myself start.  But I made an exception since they were “fall-themed” (holiday foods don’t really count, right???) and I loved them.  The pepita salsa is delicious, and chips are always good.  Plus they looked like fall leaves! We also had this: It was good.  I mean- it was good for a prepared dinner.  Elaborate cooking wasn’t in my plan for this night, so we definitely enjoyed these “heat and serve” enchiladas. We watched Baylor win, and oh yes- I was wearing my new favorite pajamas. After the game, I stayed up late reading, and finally crawled into bed, knowing that there was no work or school tomorrow, and no one would be needing me for anything.  I could sleep as late as I wanted, and didn’t wake up until 9 am.  It felt AMAZING. After a nice slow start to the morning, Sunday got underway.  I picked up my daughter, did the grocery shopping, and started thinking about plans for the week.  I felt a little melancholy that the weekend was coming to an end.  Sometimes everything just comes together perfectly.  I know there will be more fun times this fall, but it’s possible that I’ll look back and say “Yes, that was the best night of the whole season.” Are you starting to think about fall, or are you still in a summer frame of mind? Pumpkin ale- yay, or nay?

Weekly Rundown- Everything is Awesome!

I don’t want to say this injury is behind me, because that would be tempting fate a little too much.  But let’s just say “Everything is Awesome” from The Lego Movie has been running through my head, and life seems good!  I’m linking up as always with Kim and Deborah for this Weekly Rundown.  Here’s how it all played out… Sunday I walked one mile and ran 3. Everything felt good! Monday I did lower body strength at home, including single leg exercises and squats.  One of the (few) things I’m proud of from my work this summer is the progress I made in the one leg sit-to-stand.  It’s one of the foundation exercises on Sally McRae’s app and also one of the hip stability exercises from Brad Beer’s book.  You start sitting on a chair or bench, and stand up using one leg, then sit back down, stand up again, etc. only on one leg.  When I first started I could only do five reps on each leg- now I can do 36 reps!!!  At least something has improved. I also did Caroline Girvan’s deadbug workout..  I’m really tired of it by now! Tuesday I walked 3 miles… … and then did a different core workout!  I did Caroline Girvan’s Standing Abs Workout, and I liked it.  At least, I liked doing something different. Wednesday Again, I walked one mile and ran 3.  Still feeling good! Thursday I did my single leg exercises, and another core workout.  This one Engie recommended, MadFit Standing Core Workout..  I liked this one too!  Then I had time for 20 minutes of walking. At night we watched the Dolphins game, which was a complete fiasco.  We lost, and our quarterback got ANOTHER CONCUSSION.  The poor guy will be out for… ever?  The rest of the season?  I feel really bad for him, and now our season is a shambles after only the second game. Friday Gym day!  It was a very squat-focused workout, because I skipped deadlifts.  My low back is nagging at me again, and deadlifts sadly make it worse.  After squats and Bulgarian split squats I did some core (abs and low back machines.) At night I planned to go to our high school football game, but it rained so much that the band couldn’t play (so I didn’t go.)  They did manage to play in the rain and our team won!  This was our homecoming, and last year’s homecoming was completely rained out.  September outdoor events just shouldn’t be a thing in South Florida. Saturday This was a big day- I walked one mile and ran 4!!!  I’m getting there! At night we watched the Baylor game.  FINALLY.  A game where it didn’t rain, no one got injured, and we WON!  At least the football week ended on a high note. Sunday Off!  Sleeping in and waffles will be involved (obviously.) So, it was a good week.  Moving forward, I’m going to cautiously try running every other day.  Running every third day was great to get me back from this injury, but I can’t do that forever! How was your week?  Were there any moments where you sang “Everything is Awesome?” Top photo by Stainless Images on Unsplash

Friday Coffee Date!

Hey, it’s Friday!  Pour yourself a beverage in your favorite fall mug (wait- you do have one, right?) and join me. Let’s talk about the weekend!  Tonight is another high school football game, and I will be there.  The last two weeks have been away games, so I’ve missed going.  But you know what that means- it’s time for Homecoming!  My daughter decided to go to the dance with a group of friends, and we started thinking about what she would wear.  But let’s back up for a moment… The high school concert band uniform is tuxes for the boys and long black dresses for girls.  When my daughter was a freshman last year, she said she would prefer to wear a tux. Now, I wasn’t entirely opposed to this, but I just preferred that she wear a dress… like all the other girls?  I told her that whatever she decided to do was fine, but there’s a reason boys usually wear suits and girls usually wear dresses.  Girls are more curvy, so dresses flatter them more.  My daughter is very curvy, and I thought a tux would just make her look kind of big all over. She decided to wear the dress, and I thought she looked lovely!  Then I was telling my friend about how well I handled that situation, and she thought I was VERY WRONG.  Why, she asked, did it matter how she looked?  Why did I make that the most important thing? Er- good question.  When it was time for New Year’s, my daughter wanted to wear a suit to the party.  I agreed immediately, and she actually looked kind of cute (not that it mattered!) Later I asked how she liked wearing the suit, and she said “I loved it.  I felt really confident.”  Okay then. Back to Homecoming!  My daughter said she wanted to wear a suit, and we got to work on her outfit (I was tasked with finding her some new pants, which was surprisingly hard.) Then yesterday she went to the mall to help her friend find a dress, and came home with… a dress, which she is now wearing to Homecoming. You guys, I can’t keep up!  Girls are so hard!!!  Boys are so. much. easier. Anyway, while my daughter is at the dance on Saturday night, my husband and I will be watching the Baylor game!  I have a fun fall-themed dinner planned, with some new things to sample from Trader Joe’s. One last thing- I’ve submitted my request for postponement of jury duty.  Weirdly, the request had to be submitted in writing, and by that I mean I had to write a letter and mail it through the U.S. postal service.  When was the last time you did that? I was so confused.  I couldn’t even really remember how to do it.  When I printed out my letter, my husband looked at it and said “You didn’t leave room for your signature.”  Oh yeah- I totally forgot.  Then I had to find an envelope and a stamp, and take it to the mailbox… I mean, don’t we have more modern methods of communication nowadays?  Anyway, I hope it gets there, and I hope I get my postponement (actually, I’m hoping they forget all about me, but if worst comes to worst I’ll take a postponement.) That’s it for this week! When was the last time you mailed a letter?  I don’t mean a greeting card or postcard, but like an official letter?   Do you think I was wrong to encourage my daughter to wear a dress?  How much does appearance matter? What are your plans for the weekend? Top photo by Aaron Burden on Unsplash

26 Responses

  1. I like your plan… everyone should serve equally.

    and yes if you can run, you should.

    I am worrying, of course, about not being in shape for my half and full. But as you said, it’s paid for and if I can move my legs, I should just suck it up and go… leave my pride at the door.

    1. Okay Darlene, it’s a deal. We’ll both show up to our races (if physically able) and leave our pride at the door. I like that plan.

  2. Haha, you really thought this through and yes, I think you should submit your plan along with your request for postponement! 🙂

    I am keeping my fingers crossed that the calf will behave and you’ll be back to full running capacity soon.

    1. San I have even more ideas that I didn’t include (like a trip to the White House for anyone willing to be a “swing juror” for ten years.) Ha, I have definitely thought this through.
      Thanks for your support- I hope my calf is listening to all these good wishes!

  3. Your plan for the jury call is perfect!!! Hope they accept your request. I thought at least they should compensate appropriately.
    Sorry about missing the race which is a bonus of training, but at long as you can run pain free even if it’s every 3rd day, is progress, no?

  4. Back on track! Nice job, Jenn!
    Of course you need to go to that race in November! As you said, you can run/was a couple of 4.5 mile loops until your calf stops you. Who knows, by then your calf troubles may be over and you can run more than 2 loops?!

    1. Well, that’s the secret hope in the back of my mind- maybe I’ll feel so good that I can run more than two loops… we’ll see. I don’t want to get too crazy with it!

  5. I think your plan for jury duty is right on!
    Now, as for the pumpkin palooza – YES! You’re back on track! Obviously you just needed to go all in.
    Idk, why not just go for the run, even if you did one loop! Or, what if you ran one loop and then did your speed walking for more? You walk so fast!

  6. The jury system is definitely in need of an overhaul and I think your proposal would work really well!

    You should do the race! Since it’s a timed race, there’s less pressure to hit a certain distance and you might surprise yourself when you’re out there and go further than you thought you would. But I think it would be a good way to get out of the running funk in a lower stakes way!

    1. You’re right, Ashley. Luckily it’s not a one big loop course, where I would have to do the whole thing or be stranded in the middle of nowhere. And it would definitely get me out of my funk. That settles it, I’m doing it!

  7. I’m so hoping you get that postponement!!! You’re so right that the system needs to be rethought to cause the least disruption possible.
    And blergh about the race. It’s so hard to have to pick these things so far out knowing that our bodies are such fickle things. Sending healing vibes and hope it’s still a great experience even if it looks a lot different than you envisioned <3

    1. Thank you Elisabeth! I can never seem to get the race registration right- either I wait too long and it gets sold out, or I sign up super early and then get injured. Sigh!

  8. I like your plan in theory, but in practice I don’t think it will work. We want juries of your peers, not juries of retired/rich people. Also, there are cycles of when trials are held and I feel like not many would be held in December!

    It is super inconvenient here when you’re summoned. You’re on call for an entire month and you call in the night before to see if you need to go in. It’s really hard on people who work. With every meeting I made, I had to have an asterisk that I might have to cancel if I got called in for jury duty. But I only ended up needing to go in for one day and then I never had to call in again. *shrug* It is our civic duty.

    1. If I had to call in every night for a month, I would literally lose a month’s worth of wages! I couldn’t schedule appointments in advance, not knowing if I would be there or not. Right now my instructions say I have to call in every night for two weeks. Maybe it wouldn’t be the full two weeks, but I don’t know. I’m getting out of it! And… I still think there’s a way my system could work. I need to have some kind of staff to help me work on this.

  9. It’s been so long ago since I was called for jury duty, but I swear I was paid by my employer for attending. I wonder if my current employer would do that! There was a time when I got called in a for several times, but I haven’t been asked in more than 20 years I think. Sounds like a fair plan you came up with – you should send it in!

    1. Yes, some employers do that… not mine though. I think my plan is fair, but I have a feeling the government won’t see it that way.

  10. Yay for pumpkins! I say that it’s your race your rules – you’re allowed to not go if you don’t want to, or to run a few laps if you want to. You know your body, and I think you know how far you can push it without getting injured. The only thing that I would point out is that yes you paid for it, but also there will always be another race. The only reason to go is if you will enjoy being there and think it will help you to get to that next race.

    My mom was selected to be on the Grand Jury after she retired. It was a month of full time service, and she really enjoyed it. They got to meet the K9 unit.

    Look, if it were up to me there are other things that I would do with my time besides jury service, but if I was called right now I wouldn’t try to get out of it. I’d be interested in doing it as a new experience, even though I would have to keep up with work. Yes society needs to figure out how to reward people for volunteering for JD – at a minimum that means making sure they get full pay and maybe even something extra.

    1. If it weren’t such a financial disaster, i think a lot of people would actually find the experience interesting. I would- but I just can’t afford it.

  11. Would you be out for 2 weeks for jury duty? I don’t know what it’s like in Florida. In California, we get summoned, and then we check the night before. If they need jurors, you go in. You sit around for awhile while they do who knows what, and you have to watch videos about your civic duty and all of that. Then, if they don’t dismiss you, you go to a room and they start asking the jurors questions to determine who will serve.

    I have been called several times. Most recently was this spring. The waiting area was crowded, so I waited around the corner and by the time I went to sign in, they had all of the jurors they needed. So I was let go, having served my duty for the year or whatever it is. I had a nice day of it, got my nails done etc. However, I get paid by my company for up to 5 days of jury service, and I have a lot of PTO on the books, so I wasn’t really worried about losing money. When I have worked in jobs without that benefit, I worried a lot more when called up. There are some places that are experimenting with paying people more for their service, in hopes of getting a more diverse pool of people. It should not be just people who can afford it, and people shouldn’t have to take a hit in their finances. I’ve served on 2 juries, and both times it was very interesting. But again, I was paid for it by my job. It was inconvenient but that’s it.

    I’m glad you’re on the mend, and that there is still a way for you to participate in the race in November, even if you can’t do the 12 hours you wanted (typing that makes me want to go lie down).

    1. The last time I had jury duty, my experience was a lot like yours. I went for one day, sat around, was eventually dismissed and didn’t have to go back. This time it says I have to call in every night at 5:30 for two weeks! Maybe it wouldn’t be the full two weeks- I hope not- but I have no way of knowing.

  12. Lucky Charcuterie! It looks so good too…
    I really like your jury summons structure, Jenny. Why don’t they just give us the responsibility of running the world? We’d be so good at it!
    If you think you’d have the discipline to just run one loop (ha–I’d need discipline TO run one loop), why not treat yourself to your race? I can feel how tough this is for you…

    1. Maya, I didn’t want to get too carried away in this post, but yes. If we ruled the world everything would be SO MUCH BETTER.

  13. Ugh. Jury duty. It is odd how some get summoned multiple times (like my former coworker that retired last year!) and some never get summoned (which is actually the case for me but I hate to put that in writing and tempt the jury gods!).

    I am sorry this injury has derailed your 12-hour trail run race plans! I would see how you are doing and do as many loops as you feel prepared for – but you’d need to be really disciplined and not talk yourself into doing more than you should!!!

  14. Oh man, this jury duty sounds MISERABLE. I’ve never had to deal with something like that! That is so inconvenient for people who have kids, jobs like yours that revolve around appointment scheduling, etc. I like your idea although I do see some of the downsides that Engie pointed out – we still want our juries to be diverse and if only rich/retired people were on juries, I don’t know if that would happen. We just need better resources for jury duty!

    I was called for jury duty once when I was in my early 20s and haven’t been called since!

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