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Ways in Which I Am Losing It

Wow.  I’ve really been, shall we say, “absent-minded” lately.  Leaving my car keys sitting on the treadmill at the gym, going to work without my lunch… (in the first instance, a good samaritan turned them in at the front desk; in the second, I was hungry all afternoon.)  Let’s look at a couple other recent examples.

Several weeks ago, Elisabeth talked about Oliver Burkeman’s Four Thousand Weeks on her blog, and included some quotes from the book.  It sounded really good, so I immediately requested it from my library (a copy had to be transferred from a different branch.)

When it was available, I went to pick it up!  As soon as I held it in my hand, I realized… I have already read this book.  

Yep!  I read it about a year ago, and had completely forgotten all about it.  SIGH.  I brought it home anyway, thinking that maybe I would re-read it, but never did.  I returned it to the library, unread… or at least, unread this time… or whatever.

Moving on.  As we all know by now, Sunday was the first day of Pumpkin Palooza!  I made pumpkin waffles to celebrate.  Here’s the photo:

Hmm, you might be thinking.  Nice can of pumpkin there!  The REASON I included that in the photo is… that was the pumpkin that was supposed to go in the waffles.

Yep!  I made my “pumpkin waffles,” and when I took my breakfast over to the table, there was the can of pumpkin, unopened.  I FORGOT TO PUT THE PUMPKIN IN MY PUMPKIN WAFFLES.  

HOW could this happen?  I’m supposed to be the Crazy Pumpkin Lady!  This was an epic fail.  Although- the waffles were okay.  Not great, but okay.  I still put in all the pumpkin spices so that kind of counts… right?

You can see the problem.  Possible solutions include:

  1. Pay more attention to what’s actually going on instead of thinking about the book I’m reading all the time,
  2. Have myself committed, and/or
  3. Start getting more sleep.

I’m thinking I should start with a combination of 1 and 3.  These points are actually related, because I keep staying up too late reading.  But my book is so good!  I look forward to reading it all day, and once I start, it’s hard to put it down.  Well, we all know sleep is important, so I’ll try.  It would be nice to get through a few days without doing anything stupid.

How is your sleep these days?

Have you made any glaring errors lately?

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Weekly Rundown- Everything is Awesome!

I don’t want to say this injury is behind me, because that would be tempting fate a little too much.  But let’s just say “Everything is Awesome” from The Lego Movie has been running through my head, and life seems good!  I’m linking up as always with Kim and Deborah for this Weekly Rundown.  Here’s how it all played out… Sunday I walked one mile and ran 3. Everything felt good! Monday I did lower body strength at home, including single leg exercises and squats.  One of the (few) things I’m proud of from my work this summer is the progress I made in the one leg sit-to-stand.  It’s one of the foundation exercises on Sally McRae’s app and also one of the hip stability exercises from Brad Beer’s book.  You start sitting on a chair or bench, and stand up using one leg, then sit back down, stand up again, etc. only on one leg.  When I first started I could only do five reps on each leg- now I can do 36 reps!!!  At least something has improved. I also did Caroline Girvan’s deadbug workout..  I’m really tired of it by now! Tuesday I walked 3 miles… … and then did a different core workout!  I did Caroline Girvan’s Standing Abs Workout, and I liked it.  At least, I liked doing something different. Wednesday Again, I walked one mile and ran 3.  Still feeling good! Thursday I did my single leg exercises, and another core workout.  This one Engie recommended, MadFit Standing Core Workout..  I liked this one too!  Then I had time for 20 minutes of walking. At night we watched the Dolphins game, which was a complete fiasco.  We lost, and our quarterback got ANOTHER CONCUSSION.  The poor guy will be out for… ever?  The rest of the season?  I feel really bad for him, and now our season is a shambles after only the second game. Friday Gym day!  It was a very squat-focused workout, because I skipped deadlifts.  My low back is nagging at me again, and deadlifts sadly make it worse.  After squats and Bulgarian split squats I did some core (abs and low back machines.) At night I planned to go to our high school football game, but it rained so much that the band couldn’t play (so I didn’t go.)  They did manage to play in the rain and our team won!  This was our homecoming, and last year’s homecoming was completely rained out.  September outdoor events just shouldn’t be a thing in South Florida. Saturday This was a big day- I walked one mile and ran 4!!!  I’m getting there! At night we watched the Baylor game.  FINALLY.  A game where it didn’t rain, no one got injured, and we WON!  At least the football week ended on a high note. Sunday Off!  Sleeping in and waffles will be involved (obviously.) So, it was a good week.  Moving forward, I’m going to cautiously try running every other day.  Running every third day was great to get me back from this injury, but I can’t do that forever! How was your week?  Were there any moments where you sang “Everything is Awesome?” Top photo by Stainless Images on Unsplash

Friday Coffee Date!

Hey, it’s Friday!  Pour yourself a beverage in your favorite fall mug (wait- you do have one, right?) and join me. Let’s talk about the weekend!  Tonight is another high school football game, and I will be there.  The last two weeks have been away games, so I’ve missed going.  But you know what that means- it’s time for Homecoming!  My daughter decided to go to the dance with a group of friends, and we started thinking about what she would wear.  But let’s back up for a moment… The high school concert band uniform is tuxes for the boys and long black dresses for girls.  When my daughter was a freshman last year, she said she would prefer to wear a tux. Now, I wasn’t entirely opposed to this, but I just preferred that she wear a dress… like all the other girls?  I told her that whatever she decided to do was fine, but there’s a reason boys usually wear suits and girls usually wear dresses.  Girls are more curvy, so dresses flatter them more.  My daughter is very curvy, and I thought a tux would just make her look kind of big all over. She decided to wear the dress, and I thought she looked lovely!  Then I was telling my friend about how well I handled that situation, and she thought I was VERY WRONG.  Why, she asked, did it matter how she looked?  Why did I make that the most important thing? Er- good question.  When it was time for New Year’s, my daughter wanted to wear a suit to the party.  I agreed immediately, and she actually looked kind of cute (not that it mattered!) Later I asked how she liked wearing the suit, and she said “I loved it.  I felt really confident.”  Okay then. Back to Homecoming!  My daughter said she wanted to wear a suit, and we got to work on her outfit (I was tasked with finding her some new pants, which was surprisingly hard.) Then yesterday she went to the mall to help her friend find a dress, and came home with… a dress, which she is now wearing to Homecoming. You guys, I can’t keep up!  Girls are so hard!!!  Boys are so. much. easier. Anyway, while my daughter is at the dance on Saturday night, my husband and I will be watching the Baylor game!  I have a fun fall-themed dinner planned, with some new things to sample from Trader Joe’s. One last thing- I’ve submitted my request for postponement of jury duty.  Weirdly, the request had to be submitted in writing, and by that I mean I had to write a letter and mail it through the U.S. postal service.  When was the last time you did that? I was so confused.  I couldn’t even really remember how to do it.  When I printed out my letter, my husband looked at it and said “You didn’t leave room for your signature.”  Oh yeah- I totally forgot.  Then I had to find an envelope and a stamp, and take it to the mailbox… I mean, don’t we have more modern methods of communication nowadays?  Anyway, I hope it gets there, and I hope I get my postponement (actually, I’m hoping they forget all about me, but if worst comes to worst I’ll take a postponement.) That’s it for this week! When was the last time you mailed a letter?  I don’t mean a greeting card or postcard, but like an official letter?   Do you think I was wrong to encourage my daughter to wear a dress?  How much does appearance matter? What are your plans for the weekend? Top photo by Aaron Burden on Unsplash

Reading and Eating

I finished Winter of the World, which will from now on be referred to simply as WOW.  It was so, so good, and I’m getting ready to start the third book in the trilogy!  It starts in 1961, where the second book left off. But let’s go back to last week- I had my trip to the used bookstore.  It was everything I hoped it would be (look away, Engie!  I’ve discovered that Engie does NOT like used bookstores!) As I hoped, I did leave with a stack of books. Some classic murder mysteries- I can never resist- and more Ken Follett.  I have no plans to read The Pillars of the Earth anytime soon, but I know I’ll read it eventually, and I couldn’t pass up an opportunity to get a used copy in good condition. Eating!  Once again, I did not do any meal prep on Sunday so we’re limping through the week.  The good news is, I think I’m training my husband and daughter to expect less and less in the dinner department.  I mean- we do eat.  It’s just not fancy. Sunday morning I made gluten-free pumpkin pancakes from Running on Real Food.  First, let’s look at a picture from the website: And here’s, ahem, mine. All that garnish aside, mine look really weird.  But they did taste good!  Chickpea flour is my new favorite flour.  By the way, if you’re making pumpkin baked good this fall, don’t forget the formula to make them really flavorful- double the amount of pumpkin spice, and add a pinch of cloves.  And whatever you do, do NOT forget the salt! What are you reading now? Top photo by Aaron Burden on Unsplash

Getting Back on Track

I wrote in Sunday’s post that I’ve been feeling like my life is just a little off track.  Then I looked around my house and realized one of the reasons is that I’ve been half-assing my beloved Pumpkin Palooza.  I had some, but not all, of my fall decorations out, and then a summer-y wreath was lying on the table.  Furthermore, I hadn’t had one special meal or snack to celebrate the start of football season. This was all wrong!  I needed to rectify the situation right away.  I lit a fall candle… …and got out all the rest of my fall decorations while watching the first half of the Dolphins game.  At halftime I put together a little charcuterie board… …and then we watched the Dolphins come from behind to win the game.  Fall is back on track! Let’s move on to running.  SIGH.  So far, my calf seems to be better, but my race plans are in tatters.  Back in May, I signed up for a race on November 9th.  It’s a trail race, and you run as far as you can in a certain amount of time.  I chose the 12 hour option. Hahahahaha.  Even if everything goes perfectly from now on, I’ll have no business running a 12 hour race in two months.  I guess the good news is, it’s a 4.5 mile loop that you run over and over again.  I can go and just run a couple loops.  That would be kind of sad- but maybe less sad than not going at all?  I’ve already paid for the race so if I can run at all, I’ll probably go. Now let’s deal with this jury summons.  I know it’s our civic duty, but I think it’s unfair that it creates more of a financial hardship for some people than others.  Additionally, some people never get called for jury duty, and some people get called all the time!  Luckily I’ve come up with a great solution. My plan is, all registered voters would be required to submit a form every five years, indicating the time they would like to do their jury duty.  That way, people would be able to pick a time that works best with their work schedule, and have time in advance to arrange for childcare, etc. Of course, if everyone chose July of 2027 it would be a fiasco.  But I have solutions for that too!  People who are retired, independently wealthy, or who have a very flexible work schedule could volunteer to be “swing jurors,” willing to be called at any time.  There could be incentives for people who serve in months like December (which I’m guessing would be the least popular)- like if you sit on a jury in December, you’re exempt for the rest of your life. I’ll be submitting my request for a postponement- do you think I should include my detailed plan for an overhaul of the entire system?  Haha, that might get me excused permanently (“Don’t let this woman near the courthouse- she’s obviously a troublemaker!”) Anyway, I’m starting to feel a little better.  As long as I can continue to run and nothing else goes wrong, I think I’m back on track. How do you like my plan?  Would you volunteer to be a “swing juror?” Top photo by Redd F on Unsplash  

22 Responses

  1. Oh, this is serious… pumpkin waffles without the actual pumpkin! This is something that doesn’t happen to Jenny, who loves her pumpkin-stuff! You might indeed need a little bit more sleep (but believe me, I know how it is when a book captures you so much that you don’t want to do anything but read. What are you reading right now?)`

    1. Yes, you know things are bad when I forget the pumpkin!!! The book I’m reading right now is the second book in Ken Follett’s Century Trilogy, Winter of the World. Right now we’re deep into WWII and it’s written from several different perspectives- there are storylines about Americans, Germans, English, Russians… it’s fascinating.

  2. Ohhhhhh no on the pumpkin waffle fail! I know you’ll get it right next time!

    I’m sure it’s harder now with your daughter back in school, but I agree that getting more sleep will probably help you feel more focused. I know when I don’t get enough sleep I just feel off all day, but then again we all have some days where we are kinda losing it!

    1. Ashley, that’s a good point- I WILL get it right next time! And as a matter of fact, I probably won’t make this mistake again. I’ll be extra careful about the pumpkin from now on!

  3. oh that sounds sleep deprived mind/body in action. I’m always prioritizing sleep. I do read before sleep, but rarely keep up no matter how good the book is. The first sign of sleepiness hit in, I turn the light off.
    The lack of running may also playing its role into sleep quality. The days I don’t do enough activity, I’m less tired/sleepy by 8pm.

    1. Coco, you are the sleep queen! I’m super impressed with how early you get to bed. I would probably feel like a whole new person if I went to bed at 8 pm.

  4. I remember you talking about this book, Jenny! You were so excited about it and I put it on my TBR list (it’s still there, thanks for the reminder!)

    I’m with Team Sleep. Do you track your sleep? I find that extremely helpful – my Garmin always lets me know when it’s time to get more zzz. It will help your body heal, too. Win-win!

    1. Ha ha, no I don’t track my sleep because I’m afraid the data will make me too depressed! I know that makes no sense, but right now I don’t need a watch to tell me I need to sleep more- I already know.

  5. I mean, everything else seemed to be sort of normal absent mindedness but NO PUMPKIN IN THE WAFFLES THIS IS AN EMERGENCY. You might just need more sleep, Jenny! My sleep has been fine lately, it goes in cycles, you know how it is. Hashtag perimenopause.
    That said, I have totally gotten a book and started it, thinking “this is familiar,” then I’ll go to my spreadsheet and see that I’ve already read it. Now I try to check my spreadsheet BEFORE I put a book on hold.

    1. Yes, everything else could be explained away, but not the lack of pumpkin. The last couple nights I’ve gotten about 7 hours of sleep, which is good for me. Now I need to start inching it up towards eight… we’ll see.

  6. Sleep…it’s always a moving target. I feel like I have SUCH high sleep needs and rarely meet them, but I feel weak for needing so much sleep. Sigh. I did track my sleep for a while with my Apple Watch, but it got to be yet another thing I was worrying about so I stopped.

    If you’re getting committed, I’ll join you. I feel like I blank out constantly with words or remembering why I walked into a room. I blame having so many different things bouncing around in my brain at once. And I have 100% done similar things with forgetting ingredients!

    The last thing I remember forgetting was linking to your site in my latest blog post. I was so excited about receiving your postcard that I forgot to hyperlink your blog address. When I glanced at my post today I realized I hadn’t done that even though I was convinced I had…oops. Fixed now 🙂

    1. Ha ha, thank you Elisabeth! And, I agree that if I tracked my sleep with my Garmin, it would just stress me out.
      Having high sleep needs is tough. I know a couple people who need 10 hours a night, and they get it! But they don’t have kids- I don’t know how you could possibly do that with kids.

  7. I can relate to all of this! I once started reading a book and realized pretty quickly that it wasn’t working and DNF’d. About a year later I heard some chatter about this great book and got myself a copy, started reading…and realized that it was that same book and that it was still a DNF.

    My husband lost one of his car keys a while back. A while after that he noticed that it seemed like something was off with the doors not locking. The other day we were out driving around and I dropped something under the seat. I fished around to get it back and found a whole treasure trove of missing stuff – including his car key! The doors don’t lock if the key is in the car lol.

    I’m excited for pumpkin season this year. Usually I don’t make anything b/c I used to be the only one in the house who eats pumpkin so I end up using part of a can and then throwing the rest out. But now I have a reason to keep pumpkin around b/c it’s very good for dogs. Sometimes Doggo gets restless toward the end of the work day, so a good low calorie distraction is to give her a frozen Kong that’s stuffed with canned pumpkin and her kibble. It takes a while for her to use up a can of pumpkin and it takes me a while to use a can of pumpkin – but both of us together can get through a can in reasonable time.

    1. Ah, brilliant solution for the pumpkin! I agree, it’s very hard to use up the whole can. Some cats like pumpkin too- I wonder if mine do? I’ll have to try it.
      Glad to know I’m not the only absent minded one these days.

  8. I don’t know if it has to do not enough sleep or aging, but I have veered from charmingly clumsy to dangerously inattentive. I currently have three Band-Aids on my hands because I keep cutting myself with knives while cooking. And dropping things. Let’s not get started on me dropping things. I drop so many things. *sigh*

    Meanwhile, we also have a dog who eats pumpkin, so a can of pumpkin never goes to waste in our world!

    1. Engie, I think you’re also distracted by all the things going on in your family. But it’s good to know I’m not the only one.

  9. I am terribly absent minded so I can so relate to this post. That’s why I have a fob that will ring on my keys so I don’t misplace them or can easily find them if I do. I also use my apple watch to locate my phone (I push a button and it makes the phone make a specific sound). You know who doesn’t need any of these aids – Phil. He is not at all absent minded and I am so very envious!

    I forgot a couple of things when I left my parents house on Saturday night. I really thought I had it all but nope. I left one of the sound machines and the Wimpy Kid book Paul was re-reading. I try my best to use lists to keep track of everything but then I get distracted in the middle of doing something and it all gets derailed! Better sleep would certainly help – I did not sleep well on Friday night when I shared a room with both boys and my niece!!

    1. It’s funny how some people are naturally focused. In our house, I’m usually the focused one and my husband is the one losing things. That’s why I’m a LITTLE concerned about my recent state! Maybe I need to start making more lists.

  10. My eyes kept getting wider as I read this post! I chuckled at the first one but felt bad by the second. I hope you get some rest and calm, Jenny

  11. I love reading your blog today because I forgot that it was time for pumpkin everything! AND HOW COULD I?? Also I am also losing it in the very same ways, so this post makes me feel way less freaked out about my mental abilities. It MUST just be an age thing.

  12. Poor Jenny! It’s one thing after the other.

    I left my AIRPODS at the gym once. Thank God for that FindMy feature for Apple products because I didn’t realize I had left them there until the next day and was able to see that they were at the gym through the app. And a Good Samaritan turned them in, too!

    I am FINALLY getting good sleep and OMG JENNY IT IS LIFE-CHANGING. I am really trying to prioritize getting to sleep at a decent hour so I can get at least 7-8 hours of sleep as I get used to wearing my CPAP mask (well, I’m in bed for 7-8 hours but it does take me a while to FALL asleep). I hope you can figure out a way to get more sleep!

  13. HAHA I will always remember how I once made banana-nut muffins, without the, um, banana. So I go to take a bite, and was like, hmm, these are rather bland…what the heck? *eyes drift over to counter, notice bananas still sitting there….oh.* Hehe.

    My mom is notorious for being very scatterbrained. I think it’s because she simply doesn’t pay attention in the moment to what she’s doing- like, she’s doing it on autopilot, and thinking about other things. I have literally told her, ok, mom, you need to think out loud in your head, “I’m putting my glasses case back in my purse” or whatever, because she’ll just mindlessly put things away, straighten up, etc and then is looking all over for what she put away earlier!! Maybe try that technique- I’ve heard that’s supposed to help (naming things out loud (well, in your head).

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